WHY DID I GET MARRIED?

Interesting quote from the movie "Why did I get married?"

In most cases, especially in relationships, you will only get 80% of what you NEED

and you will hardly get the other 20% that you WANT in your relationship.

There is always another person (man or women) that you will meet and that will offer you the other 20% which is lacking in your relationship that you WANT

And believe me, 20% looks really good when you are not getting it at all in your current relationship.

But the problem is that you will always be tempted to leave that good 80% that you know you have,

thinking that you will get something better with the other 20% that you WANT

But as reality has proven, in most cases, you will always end up with having the 20% that you WANT

and loosing the 80% that you really NEED and that you already had.

Be careful in deciding between what you WANT and NEED in your life.

Adultery happens when you start looking for what you don't have. "Wow, this girl in my office is a real looker. But it's not her Wynona Rider features that got me. I'm crazy about her because she's also understanding, intelligent, tender - so many things that my spouse is not"

Somewhere along the way, you'll find a woman or a man who will be more charming or sensitive. More alluring. More thoughtful. Richer. Have greater sex appeal. And you will find a woman or man who will need you and pursue you and go loco over you more than your spouse ever did.

Because no wife or husband is perfect. Because a spouse will only have 80% of what you're looking for.

So adultery takes place when a husband or wife looks for the missing 20%.

Let's say your wife is melancholic by nature.
You may find yourself drawn to the pretty clerk who has a cherry laugh no matter what she says:

"I broke my arm yesterday, Hahahaha . . .."

Or because your wife is a homebody in slippers and pajamas, smelling of garlic and fish oil,

you may fall for a fresh-smelling young sales representative that visits your office in a sharp black blazer,

high heels, and a red pencil-cut skirt

Or because your husband is the quiet type, your heart may skip a beat when you meet an old college flame

who has the makings of a talk show host.

But wait! That's only 20% of what you don't have.

Don't throw away the 80% that you already have!

That's not all. Add to your spouse's 80% the 100% that represents all the years that you have been with each other.

The storms you have weathered together. The unforgettable moments of sadness and joy as a couple.

The many adjustments you have made to love the other. The wealth of memories that you've accumulated as lovers.

Adultery happens when you start looking for what you don't have.

But faithfulness happens when you start thanking God for what you already have.

But I'm not just talking about marriage.

I'm talking about life!
About your jobs.
About your friends.
About your children.
About your lifestyles.

Are you like the economy airline passenger that perennially peeks through the door of the first class cabin, obsessed with what he's missing? "They have got more leg room! Oh my, their food is served in porcelain! Wow, their seats recline at an 80% angle and they've got personal videos!"

I guarantee you'll be miserable for the entire trip! Don't live your life like that. Forget about what the world says is first class. Do you know that there are many first class passengers who are miserable in first class –

because they are not riding in a private Lear Jet?

The main message???

If you start appreciating what you have right now,

wherever you are, you are first class!

"7 Mistakes to Avoid to get pregnant" Part 1

Hi, You are welcome!
I just wanted to take a moment and thank you for
Clicking to read about the "7 Mistakes to Avoid" Report.

I am going to deliver this report as 7 separate lessons,
and you can read them step by step

The reason for this is because it will be easier to absorb
the information if you don't get too much all at once,

PLUS it will give me the chance to add some EXTRA
BONUS TIPS on getting pregnant too!!

So, if you don't mind, let's get started

Since you're here, I imagine that you may be
feeling frustrated at not being pregnant yet.

I know exactly how you feel, as I know many
people who have been in the same position.

I am willing to bet that many couples who are
finding it difficult to get pregnant, are making
some of the exact same mistakes I am going to talk about.

Here's the first one...Did you know that something
as simple as using the wrong lubrication when you have
intercourse can spoil your chances of getting pregnant? I had
no idea! In fact, I thought a little lubrication would
actually help--were you thinking the same thing too?

Well, it turns out, most store-bought lubricants will
damage the sperm and so they are strictly forbidden! The
same goes for vaseline or KY jelly. If you are using this
type of lubrication, you could be reducing your chances of
conceiving by half!!!

Luckily, there are a couple of things you can use as a
substitute. One is eggwhites. Yup, as in real eggs!
You just leave one out for a while (they're much too cold,
straight from the fridge), and then you crack it open and
use the eggwhite (not the yolk) in place of lubrication.
Believe it or not, eggwhites are extremely sperm friendly!!

Another option is a fantastic product called Pre-Seed, which is
specifically designed not to be harmful to sperm. If you
can't find it locally, it can be purchased online here:

Get Pre-Seed

Lastly, one of the best ways to improve your chance of
getting pregnant is to increase your natural lubrication.
This can be achieved by introducing more foreplay into
your "baby-making activities" which will increase your
arousal and therefore you will have more natural
lubrication to help the sperm to stay alive. Also, if a
man is more aroused, he will have a better ejaculation
which results in more sperm, which is a good thing!!

I hope you enjoyed that first tip.......

Click Here for another lesson

Warm regards and baby dust to you,

HOW TO GET PREGNANT

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Date: Saturday, July 04, 2009


Dear Friend,

Are you frustrated... disappointed... or truth be told, even a bit angry that you're not pregnant yet? Especially when it seems like getting pregnant is easy for everyone else but you? If yes, then I know exactly how you feel, because that's just how it was for me.

As you read further down this page, you will begin to understand how you can take control of your fertility by making simple changes to improve your odds of conceiving.

You see, when I tried to get pregnant, I thought it would be a fairly easy process, but frankly, it didn't go anything like I had planned. It was an emotional rollercoaster, but eventually it led me to discoveries that helped me conceive my two bundles of joy.

Let me explain...

After one year of marriage, my husband and I decided it was the right time to have a baby. As soon as we made the decision, we started planning ahead and envisioned our lives with a new baby in it. What an exciting time (you probably know what I mean).

It was a big surprise when I got pregnant so fast, but the joy did not last long. I had a miscarriage just two weeks after the positive pregnancy test. I heard from friends and my doctor that this was quite common, but that didn't make it hurt any less.

Well, we pulled ourselves together and decided to try again. We tried month after month, but my previous luck seemed to have vanished. I was emotionally drained. My doctors didn't have much advice to offer other than to keep trying. I'll bet you've heard that before.

I Knew I Wasn't Alone

I knew I couldn't be the only one having trouble getting pregnant. Yet I was annoyed that there wasn't a heck of a lot of information from my doctor on what I should do to better my chances. So what do you suppose I did? Being the research fanatic that I am, I spent the next several months looking for my own answers.

I researched on the computer every day. I read books, articles, transcripts, research papers, published medical reports -- you name it, I read it. I joined discussion groups and list serves on the Internet.

Long story short, I spent every free minute I had reading everything written on the topic of getting pregnant. Eventually, I even arranged for two expensive consultations with top experts in the field of reproductive endocrinology (fertility doctors).

And you know what?

There's an absolute ton of information on this subject. So much that it took months to simply sort through and make sense of it all. To separate the facts from the myths--the new research from the old--the wives tales from the truths.

But I was determined. There had to be things I could be doing to increase my odds of getting pregnant. And just as important, things that
I should not be doing. (Turned out I was making some big mistakes). I would try everything. If one thing wouldn't work, maybe something else would.

I knew if I didn't do this, and I ended up unable to get pregnant, I would always wonder if there was something I could have done that would have made the difference in being able to have a child.

You see, I wanted a baby more than anything in the world. I have wanted to be a mother for as long as I can remember. And I wasn't going to give up on this dream without a fight. I also knew it would help me emotionally to feel like I was actually doing something. Taking control, so I wouldn't feel so helpless.

And yet, even though I dug up all these buried resources, I wasn't sure the techniques would actually work. I'll admit, I was a bit shocked at how successful I became.

Within just two months of implementing some of the techniques I uncovered, I conceived and carried my first baby to term. She was a beautiful baby girl and well worth the wait. And when we decided to try and give her a brother or sister, I was more confident this time that using the methods I had uncovered would make it easier to conceive.

And guess what... my amazing son was conceived after only one month of trying.

The Information Is Overwhelming

Here's the thing. Whether you've just started trying to have a baby, or have been trying far too long, you need the necessary resources to help you conceive faster. To put everything into place so you have a much better chance of getting pregnant each month.

I know you don't have the time or interest in sorting through the overwhelming maze of information. Doing this research was equivalent to a full time job!!

Here's what I've decided to do. The best way to share all these powerhouse ideas and techniques...the never before revealed strategies, underground methods and treatments I uncovered was to publish it myself.

Personal Path to Pregnancy will even include astonishing nutritional therapies as well as alternative treatments you'll never hear about from your doctor.


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The Law Serves Its Purpose Well

July 3, 2009 The Law Serves Its Purpose Well Law and grace are both aspects of God's nature that he uses in dealing with us. Moses emphasized God's law and justice, while Jesus Christ came to highlight God's mercy, love, and forgiveness. Moses could only be the giver of the law, while Christ came to fulfill the law (Matthew 5:17). For the law was given through Moses, but grace and truth came through Jesus Christ (John 1:17). Rather than coming through cold stone tablets, God's revelation ("truth") now comes through a person's life. As we get to know Christ better, our understanding of God will increase. Although the law has some God-designed inability, it is nevertheless good. 3 For what the law could not do in that it was weak through the flesh, God did by sending His own Son in the likeness of sinful flesh, on account of sin: He condemned sin in the flesh, that the righteous requirement of the law might be fulfilled in us who do not walk according to the flesh but according to the Spirit ( Romans 8:3-4). The law serves its purpose, "if one uses it lawfully." One unlawful application of the law would be using it to obtain justification, a declaration of being righteous in God's sight. If anyone ever infers that attempted obedience to the law of God could potentially secure an overall verdict of "not guilty," that would be biblically forbidden. Another unlawful application of God's law would be using it to obtain sanctification, progressive spiritual growth in the Lord. If a person imagines that they could grow in godliness by their best attempts at living up to the law, that too would be prohibited by God's word. As far as God is concerned, all who trust in Christ are "not under law but under grace" (Romans 6:14). Yet, only those who walk according to the Spirit fully enjoy the daily blessings of that reality. "But if you are led by the Spirit, you are not under the law." When followers of the Lord Jesus walk according to the flesh, they practically place themselves under a performance code. They put themselves under the law for practical day-by-day living. Dear God of all Grace, I confess that I formerly lived in lawless rebellion against You. Your Holy Spirit has convicted me of my self-righteous defiance against Your holy law. Having therefore been justified by your grace through faith in Your Son, I earnestly ask Your forgiveness whenever I attempt to live by the self-righteous resources of my own flesh. Sanctify me daily by Your grace, even as You have justified me by Your grace. Thank You that Your peace is abundantly available through the grace of the Lord Jesus Christ, Amen.

The Law Tutoring People to Christ

The Law Tutoring People to Christ

The ultimate ability of the law of God is its capacity to tutor people to Christ. "Therefore the law was our tutor to bring us to Christ, that we might be justified by faith. But after faith has come, we are no longer under a tutor." (Galatians 3:24-25)

It is the plan of God to use His law to inform us about our great need for Jesus Christ. The summaries of the law of God are: "be holy, be loving, be perfect." The law demands that we be holy. We are convicted that we are not holy. Thereby, the law is saying to us: "You need Jesus Christ." The law requires that we be loving. We realize that we do not love. Thereby, the law is declaring to us: "You need Jesus Christ." The law insists that we be perfect. We know that we are not perfect. Thereby, the law is announcing to us: "You need Jesus Christ." In this process the law functions as tutor (schoolmaster or child-trainer) instructing people of their need for that which only Christ can provide through His grace.

Now that we have responded to the law's tutoring work, we are no longer under the tutor. Now that we have placed our faith in Jesus Christ, we are no longer under the law. "But after faith has come, we are no longer under a tutor." Whereas we once were told by the law to be holy, now we look to Christ for all personal holiness. "But of Him you are in Christ Jesus, who became for us... righteousness and sanctification" (1 Corinthians 1:30). Whereas we once were told by the law to be loving, now we look to the Spirit of Christ for all the love that our lives are to show forth. "But the fruit of the Spirit is love" (Galatians 5:22). Whereas we once were told by the law to be perfect, now we look to the Lord for all of the perfecting process. "Being confident of this very thing, that He who has begun a good work in you will complete it until the day of Jesus Christ" (Philippians 1:6).

When we are suffering, it often feels as though our pain will never end. But God's word gives us a wider perspective. In comparison with eternity, our suffering would last only "a little while.'' Some of us would be strengthened and delivered in our lifetimes. Others would be released from their suffering through death. All of God's faithful followers are assured of an eternal life with Christ where there will be no suffering (Revelation 21:4). "And the God of all grace, who called you unto his eternal glory in Christ, after that ye have suffered a little while, shall himself perfect, establish, strengthen you. To him be the dominion for ever and ever. Amen." 1 Peter 5:10-11

Jesus Came To Fulfil the Law

July 2, 2009

Jesus Came To Fulfill the Law God's moral and ceremonial laws were given to help people love God with all their hearts and minds. However, these laws had been often misquoted and misapplied. By Jesus' time, religious leaders had turned the laws into a confusing mass of rules. When Jesus talked about a new way to understand God's law, he was actually trying to bring people back to its original purpose. Jesus did not speak against the law itself, but against the abuses and excesses to which it had been subjected. "Do not think that I came to destroy the Law or the Prophets. I did not come to destroy but to fulfill." (Matthew 5:17) How could the righteous demands of the law ever be met in our lives? The answer to this vital question is contained in the truth that Jesus came to "to fulfill" the law. Consider how comprehensive was Jesus' fulfillment of the law. He fulfilled the law in His life, by becoming our example. As Jesus lived, He showed us what life would look like if one could always, in every way, live up to the heavenly standards of God. Jesus' testimony was "I always do those things that please Him" (John 8:29). Further, He fulfilled the law in His death, becoming our substitution sacrifice. The law included a penalty for violation, and that penalty was death. "The soul who sins shall die" (Ezekiel 18:4). "For the wages of sin is death" (Romans 6:23). Jesus lovingly died in our place to pay that penalty which we owed. "But God demonstrates His own love toward us, in that while we were still sinners, Christ died for us" (Romans 5:8). Jesus wants to fulfill the law now in our daily experience, by being our life. "Christ who is our life" (Colossians 3:4). The Lord Jesus wants to live in and through our lives as we daily put our faith in Him. "It is no longer I who live, but Christ lives in me; and the life which I now live in the flesh I live by faith in the Son of God" (Galatians 2:20). Yes, Jesus fulfills the law comprehensively! If we confess our sins, He is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness (1 John 1:9). Confession frees us to enjoy fellowship with Christ. It eases our consciences and lightens our cares. But some Christians do not understand how confession works. They feel so guilty that they confess the same sins over and over; then they wonder if they might have forgotten something. Other Christians believe that God forgives them when they confess, but if they died with sins they did not confess in time, they would be forever lost. These Christians do not understand that God allowed Christ to die just so he could offer us pardon. Christ's death points to two wonderful truths - perfect redemption and total forgiveness. God is so rich in kindness and grace that he purchased our freedom with the blood of his Son and forgave our sins (Ephesians 1:7).